I bought small based dies only because my PSA had a tight chamber and I was sizing brass from once fired range stock that obviously came from guns with larger chambers. If you are shooting new brass, or resizing brass fired in your gun, then small base dies are not needed. If you are using brass fired in another chamber then it may be needed for that first firing (can continue to use afterwards as well, if you want).
X-dies, if setup correctly, will keep brass length from growing. That is your call. I bought one for 30-06, but never set it up for use with that feature