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Finding the joy in the hunt, not just the harvest

CharlieTN

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Each year we see the exciting posts about hit list bucks, score my buck, and he's a giant, along with a myriad of other ways to describe the intended harvest. We also see the banter back and forth between those who want trophy bucks and those who just want to hunt what's there.

I want to offer a perspective for many, especially new hunters, to consider. Find the joy in the hunt, not just the harvest. When we focus so heavily on the hoped outcome of the harvest we can often miss the moments and events that can make each hunt unique. For example the other day I was hunting a small 15 acre parcel near me. I had picked a spot that appears to be a well used travel corridor, and I was right. In just over an hour I had 8 deer cut through. Had a young doe being pushed by a spike who ran by my tree no more than 12' out. Also saw a nice 7-point working his way the same direction they went with his head held up high. So from that regard, the hunt was a huge success, it confirmed what I thought. The excitement came though at the end. Had a nice doe sneak in off to my left and behind me (I'm in a saddle so I'm facing the tree). She went behind some scrubby trees so I was able to get my bow and turn towards her for a shot. From there though it became a cat and mouse game. The largest trees between me and her were no bigger than my forearm so trying to hide behind one of those is quite tough. Add to it she's working almost directly towards me and the sun is now peaking through the trees and lighting me up like I'm being interrogated at the local police station under a spotlight. Finally she paused at about 12 yards and was staring at me trying to figure out what I was. After what seemed like forever I had to shift my leg just a bit as it was screaming from trying to hold the awkward position. With that I lost the game of cat and mouse and she blew once, bounded off out of range then circled around some still trying to figure out what I was.

Each hunt has those special things that happen to make it unique and often a learning opportunity. When I get home I like to write those events down to remember them. I have found I take more joy in going back and reading through those moments than I ever do looking at the European mounts I have on the wall. For example, there is the hunt where my daughter had dropped some playdough on one of her first hunts with me. In the process of her finding it, she and a doe had a stare down, distracting the doe to the point I was able to take her. My daughter will forever be my best decoy. Or there is the hunt where I shot a nice buck, watched him bound away like nothing happened and jump across a fence to the neighbors property. I searched and searched and found only one small drop of blood right at the fence line. I finally got permission to cross the fence and take a quick look, and when I did there was blood everywhere on the other side of the fence, and my buck laying across a downed tree. My emotions went on a roller coaster ride with that one.

My encouragement is to find the joy in the hunt, not just the harvest. Focus on the little moments, the weird and crazy things that happen that make each trip unique and special. I think you'll find it to greatly enhance this pursuit we call hunting, and cause you to find much greater satisfaction.
 
Great post.

I've been known to get too hung up on trying to kill a big, mature deer that I turn it into a job more than something I love to do. Over the last couple years I still hunt as much or more than I ever have but I'm just here to enjoy it. The kill is just a bonus. My cousin asked me the other day if I've still not seen anything good on my property that's not by my house. I told him no but it doesn't bother me because I'm going to hunt either way and you never know what might show up.

I'm off today and the wind is ridiculous so I opted not to sit in a stand. I brought my turkey chair and sitting in the tall grass around my food plot. I heard this little buck cough about 630 then heard him grunt a short while later. I let out a doe bleet and he came through hot on the trail of trying to find it. I'm just out here enjoying it. The kill is just a bonus.
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I tell my family it's a good hunt if I get to go and come home safely. It's a great hunt if I go and learn something or at least see some deer. It's an amazing hunt if I am blessed to take a deer. Does can be just as tricky to hunt as the bucks, especially when there's more than one set of eyes.

For me as well, we process our own deer and there is great satisfaction in loading the freezer, whether it came from a doe or a buck.
 
Excellent post !
My dad always asks how my hunts are every time I come back home. I always tell him that they went great and begin to tell him what all happened. Did a doe blow at me ? Did a little buck run around the field playfully ? Did a fox cross the field ?

There's always something to be grateful for and I'm grateful for every time I get to go and watch the sun rise. TN is God's Country.
 
What you say is true. Yesterday I got to my spot and there were cows all over where I was expecting deer to come from. The cows didn't leave so I wanted to see if deer shifted to a different corridor I really didn't think they'd use to get to me--and they did. When I first got there and saw the cows I almost just went back home but it was a good opportunity to learn something new. Those can be the most satisfying hunts.
 
I like looking for the right spot and then getting the setup right and seeing deer either in a tree or on the ground. Something else is moving trails from where they are to where they go past a tree I can get in by dropping dead or hinged trees to make a diversion. Most of that is done from the end of turkey season till about the first of august. A lot of people hate being in the woods in the summer but I like the summer set up hunting almost as much as the shooting hunting in the fall.
 
We can honestly blame a lot of this obsession with a "successful hunt" being measured in inches of antler on media. It started with hunting shows where each year the celebrity hunter had to get deer and they had to get bigger and better deer each season. It continues with social media following the same patter. Not every hunt can end with our biggest buck ever.

For myself I tend to watch shows that focus more on the whole process of the hunt, not just the big boy down and on to the next conquest.
 
Good post CharlieTN.

I hunt to be with family. Just about every family member that wants to hunt comes in for the opener of MZ season. It's a big party. We hang out, tell stories on each other, laugh a lot, have a few drinks, make big meals, and do a little hunting. Do we all want to kill a buck? Sure, but we're going to have fun whether we do or we don't.

I have certain standards for what I will shoot simply because I've killed so many bucks over the years. If I kill something now, I want it to be a good buck.
 
Agree with you Charlie.

I hate this obsession with antlers and refuse to watch any modern hunting shows because of it. I feel like modern hunting shows are ruining hunting.
I remember when spikes were considered good bucks in my area and I miss those days where the hunt and family actually meant something.

When I first got into hunting I got spoiled quickly. I was giving access to hunt a farm where it was easy to kill deer. They weren't huge by no means but my hunting became all about killing. After moving and losing access to that property I began to embrace the actual hunt more and find a lot of satisfaction from getting into the woods in pursuit of deer. I try to learn and grow each time and relish the experience.
 
We can honestly blame a lot of this obsession with a "successful hunt" being measured in inches of antler on media. It started with hunting shows where each year the celebrity hunter had to get deer and they had to get bigger and better deer each season. It continues with social media following the same patter. Not every hunt can end with our biggest buck ever.

For myself I tend to watch shows that focus more on the whole process of the hunt, not just the big boy down and on to the next conquest.
I did the targeting of 1 deer 1 time and once he was dead, to tell the truth, I felt dirty. I was sorry for doing it and wished he was still alive. I'll never do that again, I just want to go hunting and have fun.
 
As BSK mentioned, it's all about family. I spend the entire month of November here because deer hunting in Michigan's Upper Peninsula has dwindled, largely due to wolves and DNR mismanagement. My sons join me for the rifle season, followed by my daughter and wife. I have two weeks to tag a nice buck during muzzleloader season, then I relish the time with my boys as they pursue the ever-elusive Tennessee Whitetail. We celebrate Thanksgiving together, grateful for life's abundant blessings.
 
Agreed. I am a "trophy" hunter but the older I get the more I love the chess match leading up to it. Just like tractor therapy. Tree stand therapy is a real thing for me as well. My family doesn't hunt anymore they lost the joy for it when i quite that joy I will quite to. Social media has made this a factor the grip and grins and all of that. A lot of people have lost their enjoyment of it.
 
Great post sir! I have tried to live by this motto-

"Hunting should be FUN" you as an individual define what fun is for you!

My wife started hunting with me last year after 35yrs of marriage. She killed two does and I got as excited as I did when I killed my first deer 40+ years ago. Sitting in a blind with her as the designated shooter on all our hunts together was the FUNnest hunting I ever did.

I also auctioned off a youth hunt for a church debt fundraiser and was blessed to see a young man kill a doe on his first ever hunting trip. Another absolute FUN hunt!

Lastly, I've had the privilege of being on some leases with some of the finest people you will ever meet (some are members on here). The work days, meals around the burn barrel, and helping each other get deer out of the woods are some of the FUNnest days I've spent in the great outdoors as well.

Good luck to all, I hope your year meets all your expectations and is…..FUN
 
Great post sir! I have tried to live by this motto-

"Hunting should be FUN" you as an individual define what fun is for you!

My wife started hunting with me last year after 35yrs of marriage. She killed two does and I got as excited as I did when I killed my first deer 40+ years ago. Sitting in a blind with her as the designated shooter on all our hunts together was the FUNnest hunting I ever did.

I also auctioned off a youth hunt for a church debt fundraiser and was blessed to see a young man kill a doe on his first ever hunting trip. Another absolute FUN hunt!

Lastly, I've had the privilege of being on some leases with some of the finest people you will ever meet (some are members on here). The work days, meals around the burn barrel, and helping each other get deer out of the woods are some of the FUNnest days I've spent in the great outdoors as well.

Good luck to all, I hope your year meets all your expectations and is…..FUN
You bring in a great word there, "fun." For me, it has to remain fun. If it ever becomes a chore, or work, then I'm out. Certainly i could probably buy meat cheaper at the store if I calculated the cost including my time.

My intent in the original post was to help so many from getting caught up in the idea that whitetail hunting HAS to be about the biggest rack. It doesn't. If you want to pursue the beasts, and it's fun for you, then go for it, but if you primarily want to spend time out in the woods, then go for it as well.

Remember, what you see on social media is rarely entirely true, and often times is a twisted and manipulated version of the truth and not repeatable. So don't set your expectations based on what some celebrity is doing, find your "fun" in this wonderful pursuit and go for it.
 
I did the targeting of 1 deer 1 time and once he was dead, to tell the truth, I felt dirty. I was sorry for doing it and wished he was still alive. I'll never do that again, I just want to go hunting and have fun.
For me, one of the exciting things is the unknown. I run one trail camera here on a small piece of property. Other than that I like to find sign, read the terrain, and see what's there. When that unknown steps out, it's quite exciting.

Had a tall 8-point show up cutting through my front yard a couple of days ago following a group of does. I had not seen him before and he's the largest buck I've seen around my house (no monster by any means). Hoping to meet him one day in the patch of woods near me that I hunt some. That would be a great surprise.
 

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