We laid my father to rest yesterday. I awoke to the first snow of the season. A heavy wet snow that melted promptly on the ground. Dad and I would have talked about how snow cover was an exciting time to deer hunt with the high visibility. During breakfast, a lone Tom turkey skirted a thicket behind the cabin with a noticeable limp. I was confident the bird would somehow survive the winter in the dense wood lot.
The service was a simple affair in a small country church with a large number of family and friends. My brother provided an emotional "life sketch" eulogy that started with my father was the oldest son of a tenant farmer and ended with references to his grit, humor, love, forgiveness, and service to others. I was pleased to meet many for the first time who had worked with my father and mother on mission trips.
The grave side service was held promptly after the funeral. A large group huddled closed as we tried to break the cold wind for my mother. Military honor guard was fitting send off with three volleys of gunfire at sunset, playing of taps, and flag folding presentation to my mother. We returned to the church for a nice meal with a lively conversation which would have very much pleased dad.
The day ended back a the cabin with my wife, children, and grandchildren. I thanked each of the grand kids for helping me say goodbye to "old" Pap. The adults stayed up late and we shared stories of a life well lived. I cannot be the man my father was. However, I can carry what I have learned. With the Lord as my guide, I can lead my family in same the direction. Amen