I've got my man card, don't listen to rap, don't need attention, am damn good at backing a boat and launching so maybe it's just you've got anger issues? Oh and when loading the boat it's just like unloading where I put it in the water and wife takes it off and puts it on. She can load a boat better than a lot of men and the wake / ski boats don't steer like a regular boat either. Whole different ballgame.If I ever lose my man card, start listening to rap music, suddenly need attention on a scale approaching mental illness, or forget how to back a boat down the ramp and launch in a timely manner I'm sure something like this will be my first purchase.